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How long will you stand for love?

How long will you fight for love?

After series of finding the answer about the question. I found myself tangled in the middle of a situation where my brother has an involvement.

It all started when my Brother was left by his suppose to be wife over another scumbag. Well, who wants to have a husband who don't know how to work for his family?

My Brother who apparently know nothing was left, with their baby.

He raised his son very well until he found his self looking at nowhere and feeling so miserable about what happened to his life.

I saw his suffering and even if he doesn't talk much about his own battle, I sense that he is suffering too much that he could not bare. Until he found another subject for his painful relationship.

I love my brothers and I hate seeing them suffering from an unwanted life. But who am I to choose for them who to love? I don't even know their likes.

Anyway, He never introduced the new found love to us for the thought that we will against it or we don't like it.  And apparently, indeed we don't like her. As much as possible we want him to focus on his life with his son. Not another stone to throw on his head.

I was mad to the point I told myself never to help him. He abondened his own son just to be with that girl. He always comes home very late, if not drunk but of too much heroine in his blood. I hate to see him wretched.

I thought they are perfect for each other because on how I see things. He is so into her. Then lately, I heard them fighting. I also witnessed On how he punched her, dragged her to death and even kick her in the face. It was brutal of him.

 So I asked the girl to go away before it's too late. I thought the girl will listen but she is not the type of girl who listens to any of my good-to-go words of wisdom but rather, a teenage-mutant girl who rather be sick, got a dark mask over her eyes rather than leaving my self proclaimed sadist brother. Yes. She will rather have black eyes.

And so my say to this is, If you love someone and he hurt you, its not love at all. It just a plain coincidental kind of feeling, more of a partner for his suffering.

If a guy loves you so much he wont hurt you no matter what the issue is. And if you are in your sense,  you wouldn't let that guy hurt you and give you bruises that surround your eyes that would make you look like a battered wife. Right?

Love is the feeling of grateness for the one you thought would give you everything for happiness. Not a one sided kind of feelings. We love because we deserve someone to love us in return. We love because that's what God want's us to have.

And on how I see things, Others are doing it in the wrong way.. But I still believe in the purest of love.





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