Thought About Being Single..

Have you found the one?

I've been reading a lot of post about being single. Some of them are very sad about it while others find it a joke or call it misfortune. Some were happy about it and others are bitter..

Why am I blogging about it? When am not even single. Lol.. Just a thought.

Being single is not a joke if your almost 30. Like who wants to stay single forever? Based on my own experiences. It's not easy being alone when you already used to have someone. And it's like when you see a couple passing infront of you, you felt that awkward feeling and you'll start asking yourself, why is she dating him when she's not even pretty? And why am I alone when I am pretty than her. I used to get this thought before and I know others are feeling the same way too..

Well I guess the factors that can affect our perception about being single is the thought of finding the right guy for you. Also when people afraid of having a commitment and end up heart broken. Or other have high standards in finding the so called right one.

Now a days. Setting your standards is a No-No (its only applicable for those who wants to have someone right away, or those who are in their 30's. ) I find it very rediculous, like seriously. Setting your own standards just to have that right guy. If you want to have your own knight in shining armour then slow down your standards because nobody is perfect. Stop looking for that sparks every time your eyes meet.

And if you think you are young for that kind of thing then enjoy life with friends first.

I hope this post will give you something to ponder or to think whether you should reward yourself with peace of mind. Hehe..

To end this post.
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